During my many years of counselling, I have come across the same problem time and time again : how do you move onto the second stage of your life once you reach the 40-milestone, and find yourself single again (or still)?

There are a few options open to you, and if you are computer-illiterate, then perhaps the first thing you should do is a basic computer course because yes, the era of technology seems to be here to stay.

In this book, I'll take you through the ups and downs of internet dating, how to filter through the rough to find a possible diamond, how to quickly identify and get rid of scammers, how to handle the below-the-belt opportunists and downright rude idiots, and yes, if you're a woman, how to handle being called a MILF.  We'll look at the benefits and pitfalls of being either a Cougar or a Sugardaddy.  

In addition, there's speed dating, or personal ads, or even how to sum up your date on your first night out.  

My experience and knowledge of people is my skill.  And in this book you will learn about body language, how to know if he/she is lying, and even a few sneaky tricks to make sure he - or she - is the right one for you!

Threaded throughout with humorous anecdotes based on real-life experiences, this book will provide much conversation for your next dinner party.